A Little About Myself
About Myself
People describe me as affectionate, caring, passionate, loving, empathic, creative, funny or serious (depending on the situation,) brilliant, talented, and open-minded. I know this because I asked her to write down some adjectives.
I cuddle because to me, it's the purest form of intimacy. It's an expression of care without the necessary implication of romance.
It shows my feelings without my having to say them. It fulfills my and my cuddle partner's needs for security, comfort, and reassurance that we are loved. There are times when I've quite literally pulled people back from the edge of reason into the safety of my embrace so they didn't fall any further.
How do I cuddle?
I've been the cuddlee (made that word up), and I've been the cuddler. I've cuddled as a nanny, a friend, a girlfriend, a daughter... Every interaction has its own special bond, and its own special style.
I can play with your hair, hold your hand, curl up in your embrace, have you curl up in my embrace, talk about what's on your mind, do deep breathing exercises to alleviate stress...those are some examples. I'm an open person.
Cuddling is all about an individual partner's needs and wants, which can change in various situations.
Boundaries are important--yours and mine. A lot of cuddling has to happen naturally--it can't exactly be regimented! :)
We can have quiet time, I can sing to you or tell you stories, or we can talk about what's on your mind. We can take a nap. We can laugh or we can cry. We can listen to music, watch a movie, meditate...the possibilities go on and on.
I cuddle indiscriminately, with genuine, intimate care and respect for any cuddle buddy.