A Little About Myself
About Myself
I’m soft and huggable like your favorite plushie you slept with when you were little, but, even better, I really am listening to you and here to give you the comfort and affection you deserve!
Cuddling, feeling another person against you, holding you, protecting and nurturing you, is transcendental. I will be sure to make you feel emotionally fulfilled.
You can say anything at all to me. I am here for you. I will listen and help you relax.
You are the expert on what you need, so just let me know and I will provide whatever it is (within the terms of service) as best as I can. I want you to feel amazing... just like you deserve!
Expectations :
Just be you! Beyond the obvious standards of being hygienic, kind, and platonic, there is nothing about you that you need to hide! I am comfortable with all genders, all abilities, all races, all ages, etc. If you have a physical or mental disability that requires a cuddler have more knowledge than a quick explanation provides, please let me know so I can look it up and be prepared.
(e.g., mobility limitations that involve me helping you change positions; cognitive/mental conditions that at time involve issues you think it might occur during our session, and me knowing about it will be helpful -- triggers, communication, memory, etc)
I understand the pain of discrimination so please don't worry about telling me anything. I keep client information in strict confidence. Besides... We’re just two souls with bodies between us.
Screening: I will need a picture of your ID and one of you holding your ID with the ID photo visible for screening purposes. You can mark out personal identifying info, but I'll want to see your picture and name. Alternatively, you can send me the link to your LinkedIn account—I will not contact you on there or contact your employer. I value discretion for both of our sakes. These are simply screening methods to make sure this is a safe interaction. There's always that small chance and I have a history of bad luck unlikely outcomes so much you might think you it was fiction. So, we’re going play it safe or no game.
Smoking: This is fine.
Drugs: no thanks. I’d prefer our time together to be peaceful and to leave you better off than before it. I don't consider marijuana a drug, but if you use it in a flagrant way that might draw attention (public use or use in a hotel room instead of your car), I will immediately cancel.
Drinking: I do not drink and I do not feel safe around heavy drinking or drunkenness. I will immediately cancel if this occurs.
I reserve my right to leave with full payment for the scheduled session if heavy drug or alcohol use occurs or if you arrive to our session heavily intoxicated.
Types of Sessions:
Outcall: I can't currently do outcall. I will update this when I have a driveable car.
Incall: My incall location is my home, so I hope you’re ok with pets who are aggressively affectionate—the apples didn’t fall far from the tree. I have a wiener dog and a cat. They have a room they can hang out in together while we cuddle on the couch and watch tv, Netflix, or amazon prime. Or, we can cuddle in my bed with the lights or maybe some candles providing ambient in the quiet or with some calm, soothing music playing gently from my Bluetooth speakers.
Travel: I might eventually be willing to consider this with a regular client. However, I am a homebody. I love being at home with my fluffbutts and as a freelancer, I tend to work most days, which is always much easier from home.
I enjoy paddling, nature walks/light hiking, geocaching, and writing. I’m working on my first blog now and will launch it in early 2020. What’s your hobby? Let me know!
I hope we get to meet soon!
In your initial messsge please tell me:
•Who you are
•All about what you want from a cuddle session
•When you think of the perfect cuddle session, what’s it like? What is your ideal cuddle buddy like? I’ll be honest with you and tell you whether I’m “it” or not
•How long would you like the session to be?
•When—date and a time, please!
Sending my warm hugs your way 🤗
Jay