I am a Kenyan lady, 26 turning 27 years of age. What's your love language? Mine is touching. In a world where people deem the need of human connection , especially when it comes to men and women who are at the top of their fields as weakness, I see at as a strength.
The ability to say out loud to another person, "Can you hug me?" or "Can you hold my hand?" "can you cuddle with me" because you feel like you're drowning in your own body or mind and just want the feel of another human contact, the warmth, to keep you afloat if just for a few seconds, or minutes, or hours, is so disconcerting to so many of us. Mostly because we've been fine-tuned by society to see that as a sign of weakness, that you don't have it together.
But you do have it together, even when all you need is a hug from a stranger to make you feel alive again, you're at your strongest when you listen to your body.
I'm a cuddler, hand holder, a very good listener with no judging bone in her body. I understand that sometimes we don't want to talk, sometimes we just need to be held and let the silence speak. But there are other times we also need to talk, to let it all out. Not for someone to find a solution, but to have someone just listen and get a chance to let it all out of our chest and lessen the burden of holding it all in while it burns you to the ground.
If you're looking for a cuddle partner, a listening partner, someone to just hold your hand while you travel and assure you you're not alone, pick one of the rates that suit you below and let's connect.