A Little About Myself
One unfortunate side effect of our society, which encourages us to prioritize financial success, is that we have fewer and fewer meaningful connections, and we sideline our body's needs for physical contact. I am to change that one cuddle session at a time.h to
I want to give you permission to sink into the body's self-healing through touch and intimacy. Allow yourself to show up as the person you want to be as you engage in sacred touch and play alongside me.
Having dedicated myself as a priestess to the body's intuitive knowledge through energy work, trauma-recovery ceremonies, intuitive dance, and initiatrix experiments, I am eager to provide everyone access to comfort in their own skin free of constrictive notions of identity.
Come cuddle and hang out with me! :)
When I'm not cuddling to save the world, I do a lot of role-playing (tulpas welcome), both embodied and text-based. I write poetry and have three books published. I do recreational fire play/massage and lead entheogenic ceremonies.
I am a queer, polyamorous plural and have lived in Portland, OR for four years. I prefer to meet in my home in South Burlingame where I have a private air conditioned cuddle room and lots of blankets.
Since I believe that touch and intimacy is a basic human need, I offer a 10 percent discount to POC individuals and those who self-identify as LGBTQ+. Just mention it in a message to me.
I am sensitive to fragrances, so please don't wear any perfume or cologne. :)
**Note on photos**
You may notice that my photos are all very different. For the past three years, I have been cultivating "characters" (also called tulpas, alters, integrated family system members, or aspects) who each have some level of autonomy within me. Essentially, I make a practice of identifying sets of behavioral traits I have and naming them. As a character's story develops, they surprise me with their wants and desires and their ability to share the responsibilities of day-to-day existence. For more information about this practice, message me or check out r/tulpas on Reddit.
Here are my characters who are interested in cuddles. See if you can match which photo is of which character. :) Feel free to request any of them specifically. Otherwise, I will naturally fall into one of their headspaces when I meet you (most likely Sage), although I don't wear the wigs for cuddling.
Sage (white/silver hair, aromantic pansexual female): Sage is my primary cuddler, and she's essentially a projection out into the future of what I want to be. She's excellent at holding space and adapting to changing situations. She's simultaneously nurturing in nature and ready to spontaneously spice up any interaction to make it more engaging and nourishing. Sage pulls out other character traits when that's fun or necessary, and she refuses to let anyone restrict her freedoms. She is a true Sagittarius but appreciates and admires loyalty.
Sage's cuddle strategy: intuitively reading her audience, light touch, playing with hair, energy play
Xavier (short, dark, disheveled brown hair, gay man): Being a choreographer, Xavier loves listening to new music and determining how the music wants to be danced with. He is energetic and thoroughly enjoys offering touch in ways that match the music that's on. Xavier very much adheres to the idea that "practice makes practice" and believes that everything in life is choreography. He frequently enjoys wearing girl clothes with his boy haircut and looking gender fluid.
Xavier's cuddle strategy: performance, dancing, mixing intentional with unintentional touch
Jessica (mid-length brown hair, butterfly earrings, asexual female): If you're looking for someone to cuddle you while watching Disney movies, Jessica's down. She's sparkly and spunky and ready to go on a spy adventure, just say when and where. She enjoys gardening and would love to have you help her take care of her plant babies.
Jessica's cuddle strategy: friendship, nurturing touch, activities
Gemma (Short blonde/pink hair, sometimes wears a pink and purple '20s cap, heterosexual female): This is my gentlest, most empathetic character. She enjoys being treated girlishly and will happily let you cuddle her. She's a silly girl who is very, very sensitive to touch, and I only let her out when I am absolutely sure she will be safe with present company.
Gemma's cuddle strategy: timid and shy engagement, approachableness, snuggling onto your chest, being tickled
Satyr (Long brown hair, horns, pansexual female): As her name suggests, Satyr likes to think she's a mythical fae creature with a loose connection to Dionysus. I discovered her when I found my righteous anger, and she is the character who gives me the most permission to be what I am. She's very mischievous but always for long-term good.
Satyr's cuddle strategy: play wrestling, light touch, gentle commands
XJ (changes her hair all the time, rainbow gloves, lesbian female): XJ is Xavier's twin sister, and she's equally energetic. She's your iconic manic pixie punk rave girl who frequently refers to herself as a space mermaid. Want to go out clubbing before cuddles? XJ is your girl. On her off time, she paints and enjoys mixing accident with intention through discovering how a medium works.
XJ's cuddle strategy: rainbows, dancing, indulgence, junk food
Baer (not pictured, heterosexual female, long brown hair): Baer (Bay-air) likes to imagine that she used to live in a secluded cottage in ancient Greece and worship Artemis. She is excellent at holding space for younger men especially to learn about sacred touch. Though she is not and would never be a mother herself, she has a very motherly spirit and enjoys holding space for exploration. She's not great at socializing due to being in the woods for so long, but she's great for quiet company. In her off time, she practices archery.
Baer's cuddle strategy: letting you explore, quiet companionship
Rorrim (wears sunglasses, short brown hair, intersex male): This character largely formed out of identifying egotistical traits I have, so suffice it to say that Rorrim *knows* how attractive he is and is thrilled about how he might encourage people to rethink their ideas of gender and sexuality. He frequently imagines himself as a power-hungry rogue/thief character, but he's always a good time.
Rorrim's cuddle strategy: persuading you to extend the session, playful mischief
Dehaljadrun (Long black, wavy hair, heteroflexible goddess): Dehaljadrun was my first character. She showed up out of nowhere with an entire realm. She likes to think she's the goddess of desire and closely resembles the Lilith story (who was mythologically Adam's first wive before Eve). She enjoys adding herself into the dreams of others and denying them what they want. Definitely the most difficult for me to control. She does want she wants.
Dehaljadrun's cuddle strategy: denial, fantasies, using her nails
Juniper (short brown hair, aristocratic socialite, gay man): While Juniper would not be interested or available for cuddles before you spend some time getting to know him, he is a very sweet man who is, granted, a little pretentious. He has very high-class tastes and loves curating beautiful things. He regularly does culinary plating and interior decorating.
Juniper's cuddle strategy: cooking and plating meals, going out on art gallery dates, using touch to emphasize or recognize a person's beauty