I'm a kind, compassionate, easy-going, open-minded, generous, and non-judgemental hetero cis male; pronouns he/him. Cuddling is my favorite thing, ever, bar none. I'm a big believer in the benefit of touch. It has been showed to help with depression, boost the immune system, reduce social anxiety, and even relieve pain. I believe each of us has a "touch tank" that gets topped off each time we touch. This is one of those rare instances when the more we give, the more we have.
I have a lot of love to give and would love to help you feel more love and acceptance. I offer a judge and shame-free environment. I would love for you to ask for anything you might be curious about or been wanting to try but feel funny to ask. I promise to respond without judgment and only engage in things I'm wholeheartedly willing to do. This is your session, and you are in charge.
There are are a lot of things we can work on during our session, as long as we stay legal and within the rules you are in charge. We can work on whatever you want. Just want to be held for hours on end, in various positions, great we'll do that. Want to cuddle while you tell me about your day? Cool beans. Want to work being more assertive in defining your boundaries and clearly communicating them? Fabulous, I have some exercises we can work through. Want to practice asking for what you want (insert a legal disclaimer here)? Outstanding I have activities for that too. Need your feet/shoulder/back rubbed? I would be happy to fill that need for you. If you have an issue with being overly self-critical, I'll help you see just how marvelous you are. Please note I'm not a therapist, and I have no training in that. I am simply a compassionate and accepting man who is a good listener.
Today's technology offers marvelous ways to connect to people all over the world, which is fabulous in a lot of ways, and at the same can cause folks to become socially isolated. The only real way to stay in touch is actually physically to touch someone.
I'm a computer geek by trade and love all things technology. However, social interaction and physical contact are essential to me, and I love helping others get the touch they need. I also love dancing all sorts of structure partner dancing, such as salsa, swing, two-step, waltz, etc. Listening to live music and attending live theater are other activities I enjoy. I've lived in the Seattle area for over 30 years, in case you are considering the tour guide option.