He/him/his
Described as a “professional Big Spoon” and as having a “soft Dad” vibe.
Based in Western Massachusetts and drive as far as Albany, NYC, anywhere in Connecticut or Vermont, Rhode Island, Southern New Hampshire or Maine for a travel fee.

When we have no control, the next best thing is to feel supported. It’s been several long lonely years in already long lonely times. We’ve been focusing so much on establishing boundaries and bodily autonomy (rightly) and not a lot on seeking desired consensual touch.(Speaking of, if you’re not familiar with the FRIES model of consent, you should be. It’ll make our time together much easier.) It feels good to reach out and touch someone and the feeling when you have someone you can trust with that need for support is genuinely healing. I’m here to help so please reach out to me. Space with me is safe, inclusive, hopefully fun, hopefully pleasurable and hopefully curative. Let’s talk.

If you’re not sure what you want or don’t want, ask yourself how you like to be touched, how you don’t like to be touched, where you might like to be touched but haven’t tried so aren’t sure yet? Do you like being held; how much eye contact is the best amount of eye contact; how much do you want a conversation vs what do you want to be told? Caressing, squeezing, scratching, tickling, being read to!(I once read Charlotte’s Web to someone because it was their favorite book as a child and they wanted to return to that littlespace while cuddling). Use your imagination, the sky’s the limit with platonic intimacy. I want my time in your space to be as fulfilling as it is comforting so you can leave all the stuff you’re dealing with at the door. This time is for you. You’re important, you matter, your existence is valuable and you deserve to feel like it.

***************Session information****************
$80 per hour for a minimum of 1 hour with travel fee up front as a booking fee. Booking fee is non-refundable but session can be infinitely rescheduled if you have no choice but to cancel. Please note I can only do outcalls right now until I have enough regulars to get a dedicated cuddle studio.

I am vaccinated, and while you don’t have to be I do have to know if you aren’t. I have an immunocompromised partner. After you request a session with me I’ll reach out to you and ask some basic questions about where to meet you and what it is you need or want from our time together. If you want a more detailed meeting about your needs we can schedule a phone call too. My boundaries tend to be flexible depending on how well I trust you, but rest assured I will stay within the Code of Conduct and tell you what I am and am not okay with and I will be happy to provide the same environment for you.

***********Skills & Specialties***************
Trauma informed, Oil Massage, Sensation Play, Story Time, Professional Big Spoon

***********Availability************
Usually in the afternoon and evening, all day Tuesdays and Saturdays.